So you once got slammed for seeing things from 50k feet. OK you're not good at describing things with threading-the-needle accuracy. It still works to big picture things based on not being judgmental. It does seem like avoiding that moment of choice but let the bounds of the arena always matter in how you arrange the deck chairs.
Guys who dance not only get vicarious sex but unleash a mountain lion in an otherwise non-alpha being. Cracking the co-orgasmic cohabitation code was made possible by counting by the hips. The dance shoes are put away but still making merry differently. Spring blooms in fragrant plumes making our happiness zoom. RT dropping by to provide the harmony.